| Communicating |
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1.
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Give positive
feedback and show appreciation for teachers and the principal. |
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2.
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Approach interactions
with school administration and staff with a positive attitude
and an open mind. |
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3.
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Listen to
others' viewpoints when having a discussion. |
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4.
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Share your
child's strengths, talents, and interests with teachers. |
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5.
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Share expectations
and set goals for your child with his or her teacher. |
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6.
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Make appointments
as needed to discuss your child's progress or concerns. |
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7.
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Attend parent-teacher
conferences with specific questions you want to ask. |
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8.
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Decide with
your child's teacher the best way to stay in touch (phone,
e-mail, notes, etc.). |
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9.
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Understand
and reinforce school rules and expectations at home. |
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10.
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Participate
in informal opportunities to talk with and get to know
school administration, teachers, and other staff. |
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11.
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Address concerns
or questions honestly, openly, and early on. |
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12.
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Attend PTA
or parent meetings regularly. |
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13.
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Read classroom
and/or school newsletters. |
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14.
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Visit your
school's Web page. |
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15.
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Know the names
of your child's teacher(s), school principal, and school
nurse. |
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16.
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Read and know
your school's handbook. |
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17.
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Request that
information be available in all languages spoken by school
families. |
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18.
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Share your
family's practices related to culture, values, and parenting
with your child's school. |
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19.
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Communicate
your perceptions of how parents are treated and, when
necessary, work with school staff to improve perceptions
and school climate. |
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20.
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Notify teachers
of any significant changes that have taken place in a
child's life (such as death of a pet, family move, loss
of income, family member illness, divorce). |
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| Parenting |
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21.
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Meet your
child's friends and get to know their parents. |
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22.
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Take advantage
of family programs and resources offered at the school. |
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23.
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Work with
others to establish a parent resource center at the school.
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24.
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Help create
a school toy/book lending library and visit it regularly. |
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25.
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Assist in
developing parent support programs/groups. |
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26.
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Arrange to
visit your child's classroom or have lunch with your child
at the school. |
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27.
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Seek out classes
or information on child development, learning styles,
discipline, etc. |
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28.
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Attend parent
education fairs and other special events at school. |
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29.
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Start a parent
book club to discuss current publications. |
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30.
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Help create
and/or contribute to a school newsletter on parenting. |
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31.
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Promote and
volunteer for before- and after-school programs. |
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32.
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Build an at-home
child I.D. file including items such as medical records,
pictures, and fingerprints. |
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33.
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Make donations
and/or offer to work at clothing drives and food banks
to benefit economically-disadvantaged families in the
community. |
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34.
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Ask teachers
or school counselors about how to talk with your children
about tough topics. |
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| Student Learning |
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35.
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Discuss your
child's school day and homework daily. |
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36.
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Know your
child's academic strengths and weaknesses. |
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37.
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Provide a
quiet, well-lighted place with basic school supplies for
studying/homework. |
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38.
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Help your
children break down big homework projects into smaller,
more manageable steps. |
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39.
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Develop a
consistent daily routine and time for studying and homework. |
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40.
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Provide encouragement
and praise for your child's efforts. |
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41.
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Share your
interests, hobbies, and talents with your children. |
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42.
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Provide children
with books, magazines, newspapers, and other materials,
and encourage regular reading. |
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43.
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View selected
TV programs together and then discuss them. |
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44.
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Make family
trips to the library, zoo, museum, or park a fun learning
experience. |
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45.
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Talk with
your child's teacher about creating home learning games
and activities. |
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46.
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Assist with
homework, but avoid doing it for your child. |
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47.
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Attend school
meetings on learning expectations, assessment, and grading
procedures. |
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48.
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Help set goals
and develop a personalized education plan for your child. |
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49.
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Participate
in activities that help you understand school technology. |
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50.
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Help plan
and attend family nights on improving study habits, doing
homework, etc. |
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51.
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Help develop,
visit, or offer services to your school's study/tutor
center. |
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52.
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Participate
in academic fairs as a family. |
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| Volunteering |
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53.
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Respond to
school surveys on your interests, talents, and skills.
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54.
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Let school
staff know your availability to volunteer (days, times,
and how often). |
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55.
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Coordinate
and participate in evening and weekend volunteer activities
at school. |
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56.
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Assist your
child's teacher in the classroom or on field trips when
you are able. |
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57.
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Work with
school staff and teachers to develop volunteer activities
you can do from home. |
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58.
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Assist school
staff and educators in creating a warm and welcoming atmosphere
for parents. |
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59.
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Help provide
child care and/or transportation for volunteering parents. |
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60.
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Collaborate
to develop creative ways to use volunteers at school. |
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61.
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Work with
others to develop volunteer job descriptions and evaluations. |
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62.
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Assist school
staff in recruiting parents and community members as volunteers. |
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63.
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Attend training
and orientation on how to be an effective volunteer. |
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64.
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Learn and
uphold school discipline, confidentiality, and other policies
as a volunteer. |
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65.
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Set a time
to talk regularly with school staff and educators with
whom you are working. |
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66.
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Participate
in organizing and planning ways to recognize and appreciate
volunteers. |
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67.
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Respond to
school surveys/questionnaires on the effectiveness of
volunteer programs. |
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68.
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Help develop
and distribute a volunteer directory to parents, school
staff, and teachers. |
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69.
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Volunteer
your consulting services in your areas of expertise to
school staff or educators. |
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| Partnering
with the School |
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70.
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Learn of school
and district policies and practices that affect children. |
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71.
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Voice your
support or concerns on any issue that will affect your
family. |
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72.
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Serve on school
task forces that examine such things as school dress codes
or bully prevention policies. |
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73.
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Participate
in meetings to determine special educational needs and
services. |
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74.
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Attend workshops
on problem solving, conflict resolution, and public speaking
to develop your advocacy skills. |
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75.
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Serve on school
advisory councils or committees on curriculum, discipline,
and so forth. |
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76.
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Become part
of a school-based management team with teachers and the
principal. |
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77.
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Encourage
and support children to serve in student leadership positions. |
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78.
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Help your
school create a student's rights and responsibilities
guide for families. |
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79.
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Attend PTA,
school board, and/or town meetings and speak to issues
of concern. |
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80.
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Learn candidates'
positions and participate in school board elections. |
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81.
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Work with
teachers and school administrators to develop a parent
involvement policy. |
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82.
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Write, call,
or visit local or state decision makers to support or
oppose proposed education legislation. |
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83.
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Participate
in petition drives or letter-writing campaigns to Congress
on legislation affecting public schools and other child-related
issues. |
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84.
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Give testimony
at public hearings in support of or in opposition to proposed
education legislation. |
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85.
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Vote in local,
state, and federal elections for public officials who
support education. |
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| Collaborating
with the Community |
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86.
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Find out about
and use information on community resources and organizations. |
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87.
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Help your
school develop a directory of social and community services.
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88.
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Make local
agencies and businesses aware of what's happening at your
school. |
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89.
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Help coordinate
and participate in events that support community groups. |
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90.
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Talk with
employers about holding parent meetings or parenting workshops
on-site. |
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91.
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Encourage
employers to adopt flexible work schedules and time off
so that employees might attend school functions. |
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92.
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Ask employers
and local businesses to make donations and support school
programs. |
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93.
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Help organize
and/or participate in community health fairs. |
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94.
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Recruit community
members (seniors, business people) to volunteer at school. |
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95.
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Become active
in community groups such as YMCA and Boy and Girl Scouts. |
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96.
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Serve on local
community advisory councils and committees. |
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97.
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Work with
local authorities and public officials to sponsor community
events. |
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98.
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Help organize
and/or participate in a community "clean up"
or "beautification" project. |
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99.
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Encourage
and help facilitate your child's participation in community
service. |
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100.
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Be a role
model; be active in community service yourself or together
with your child. |